Thursday, January 23, 2025

Boomers Pave The Way

As a society, 
we tend to assign behaviors, 
attitudes, beliefs and practices 
to specific age groups 
across the board. 

Listen to a forty something 
when he/she forgets 
a word or a phrase 
jokingly refers to this 
"missed memory" 
as a "Senior Moment".

Boomers are "booed" 
by many 
as "taking up space", 
"hoarding the best houses", 
increased consumption.

Never have I ever heard 
so much discord directed 
at an age group 
as I have by those 
who owe their lives 
to many who came before.

A constant complaint about
the "cost" of a generation 
who gave so much,  
started with so little.

Having the courage 
of their fathers
and their mothers 
to climb life's ladder, 
open doors 
for all coming behind.

We marched, we picketed, 
we raised our voices . . . 
in meetings, 
on land line phones, 
in stick shift cars, 
riding buses long distances,
for Freedom and Equality.

Our songs 
presented the problems, 
challenges of the times.

We held 
Hands across America
with our children 
standing beside
showing unity, 
community.

We started many causes,
saw many needs.
Working then and now 
to create a better world.

Raising awareness 
of those who work 
to tear us apart.

Boomers were once 
the "golden children".
On their way 
"up the ladder to a
life of comfort & benefit."

Boomers went to College. 
Even if it was 
the "new" Community College.
Created to accommodate 
the high numbers of births
after the War.
Needing preparation 
for "tomorrow's world".

Females whose mothers worked 
on assembly lines for our troops, 
walked together, advanced programs 
and started diversity & inclusion.

They had sons & daughters,
worked as teachers, 
in offices and on Boards;
stepped across lines, 
pioneered, led the way, 
showing the best directions.

The trend was moving women 
from assembly to check-out lines.

Away from the "Big City" to suburbs
to the not long ago vacant fields 
now filled with 
"little houses on the hillside, 
little houses made of ticky tack",
and the suburban shopping centers.

Those now "funny looking" 
aging men & women 
fought for freedom, 
came home to work crazy shifts, 
tried to advance 
on a ladder constantly moved 
towards higher & higher 
education, training.

Suburban housing developments
were created and gave rise to
"Millionaire Businesses" 
from services 
to retail 
and Credit Cards.

No more walking 
to the "corner store" 
or grabbing a bus 
or "trolley".
 
One car for work,
another for 
"the lady of the house".

The automobile 
became necessary
to get to 
the Malls and Strip Centers
where spending 
became a pastime for some 
and a necessity for others.

Then "the lady" 
did the unthinkable
She went to college. . .  
She competed for jobs . . .  
once "belonging" to "men". 

Did they really "spend" 
more than they made 
as many now accuse? 

Assembly lines faded, 
more giant high rise 
office buildings grew.

A "Brave NewWorld" 
develops with computers 
and home delivery.

With so much emphasis on AI, 
kids are being praised,
become popular, 
as they adapt and embrace
the art/science of AI.

Video games, 
programs encouraging winning, 
gambling, knocking things around -- 
and we wonder where all the "violence" 
we see and hear about has "come from". 

Ever hear a young friend/relative 
refer to some being"just like" 
Mom, Dad, Grandma, Grandpa, 
when there's a forgetful moment?

"Individuals" 
is how the vast majority 
of people want to be seen.
                           
Instead, we measure, categorize, 
assign and place people in Stats.

Society decides what's "typical" 
and the "bar" often moves.

Using polls, questionaires, 
even medical records.
Supplying information 
for behaviours, conditions.

Like any other statistical 
or marketing poll, 
you get out of it 
what you put into it, 
often producing inaccurate, 
insufficient guidelines.

Dr Benjamin Spock
might be the cause 
of Statistical Reasoning.
 
Unless you're a member 
of the Boomer Generation  
you probably do not recognize 
the name of this very prominent 
physician, writer, 
and a top Influencer of his time.

He was the first medical professional, 
a pediatrician, to "characterize"
or "group" children's ages.

You may recall the "Terrible Two's". 
Advice from infancy through adolescence.

Dr Benjamin Spock, 
taught another lesson to Boomer mothers.
  
He championed the concept 
of continual learning, 
growing, developing,
and being "care givers" 
for another generation.

It's anticipated and believed 
the child will "outgrow" 
certain actions and reactions 
with direction or intervention.

Today, we embrace
a different approach.

Those machines 
we constantly have our fingers on 
are there to retrain and restructure 
according to whoever controls them.

Society in general 
doesn't believe 
the aging adult 
is going to 
"get" better or "outgrow" 
actions or behaviours.

We are taught to believe 
the aging are all moving into 
that valley, that depth of life 
where only memory loss 
and physical loss of capability exist.

It is inevitable and non-reversible
to be expected and anticipated

One benefit of AI
is 24/7 ability
to use resources
to gain knowledge
to understand.

Boomers are not Aging As Expected. 
They're not sitting 
in rocking chairs on front porches.
Many hold out on going quietly 
into homes for the aging.

Boomers set a different path 
listening to a different drummer.

Boomers marched, picketed 
and their music 
reflected the conflicts 
and the challenges of the times.

A generation 
forming large groups of protestors 
to bring to light wrongs 
to work to bring about change. 

Boomers continue 
to honor those who went before them.
Aging as they choose to age.
Rejecting stereotypes,
Working for understanding.

LOOK OUT WORLD. 
Senior Moments 
change and create 
the world as we NEED it to be. 

Millennials may be the turning point; 
Baby Boomers are the force to be reckoned with.

Fine wines are aged. 
Human Aging is like a fine wine.
Boomers Pave The Way
Building highways into tomorrow. 

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